RELATIONSHIPS
AND YOUR CONFIDENCE IN POST-COLLEGE
There are many stages an
individual goes through in their lifetime: They normally mark the end of one
journey and the beginning of another. One of the most crucial phases is
arguably the one that comes after college. As opposed to when you were in
Primary, High school and College: When you could literally get away with
everything from boycotting books to drinking yourself crazy, decisions you make
when you are a young adult from your relationships, career and even health
could easily make or break your future. My friend and I sat down over lunch to
talk about ‘life after college’ and here is a take away (Part 1) from our conversation as far as Friendship and Confidence
are concerned.
FRIENDSHIP
YOU WILL LOSE SOME OF YOUR
FRIENDS
As hard as this is to grasp, it
is inevitable in your post college life. As you and your friends get new
responsibilities, new opportunities and concerns change happens inadvertently.
If the change does not make you stronger it will surely kill your friendship. The
person you knew as a friend becomes nothing more than a memory in the rear view
and what once a blossoming friendship is reduced to inconsistent Facebook likes
and short commentaries: BFFs (Best Friends Forever) is subtly replaced with KOF
(Kind Of Friends). As your friend becomes a different person you are left with
two options: accept them as they are or let them go. It would be fatal if you attempted
to fix your friend to restore the friendship, if you can’t adjust yourself let
them go.
FORGING NEW RELATIONSHIPS
As old friendships fade you
will initiate new friendships. When you move to new towns and meet new people,
you are bound to begin a new relationship with someone: Just ensure that you
surround yourself with people who challenge you and encourage you, it would be
so sad to carry unnecessary baggage in your post college life, it will slow you
down.
YOU ARE
NOT ALL TOO CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF…ITS OKAY
Insecurities and peer pressure
does not end when you are done with college. There may be something about
yourself that you still struggle to accept, fight or even hide, the only
difference now and when you were eighteen should be how you handle it. Now you
should at least be able to consciously work towards being at home with what you
cannot change about yourself, sooner than later you will triumph and this will
open reserves of positive energy and confidence that will be very instrumental
as you run your daily duties.
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